When Prince William first welcomed his in-laws, the Middletons, into his circle, he encountered a phrase that many of us toss around casually: “Nice to meet you.” However, this seemingly innocent greeting has led to an unexpected nickname for Princess Kate’s family, according to etiquette expert William Hansen.
It appears that the Middletons used this phrase so often that it caught the attention of social observers, raising questions about proper etiquette.
Hansen, who previously served as an under-butler for the late Queen Elizabeth II, suggests that while the phrase is common, it may not be the best choice in formal introductions.
He argues that using “Nice to meet you” can come off as insincere, especially when the speaker doesn’t genuinely feel that way.
This raises an interesting point about how we communicate in social settings and the importance of authenticity.
The nickname “Nice to Meet You Middletons” was reportedly bestowed upon Kate’s family due to their frequent use of the phrase.
In the past, such a greeting might have been considered a social misstep.
Hansen notes that the phrase likely originated in America but has found its way into British social circles, including those of the royals.
It seems that even the upper echelons of society are not immune to casual conversational habits.
In his book, “Just Good Manners,” Hansen elaborates on the implications of this greeting.
He explains that saying “pleased to meet you” or “nice to meet you” could potentially signal a lack of sincerity, especially in the context of British social norms.
Historically, such phrases could lead to a form of social rejection, where one’s faux pas would be quietly noted by others present.
Interestingly, Hansen points out that the British have long been sensitive to the nuances of polite conversation.
While no one would make a scene over a poorly chosen greeting, subtle cues would alert others to the breach of etiquette.
